"I once served a table where the boyfriend was planning to propose to his girlfriend over dessert. He came in earlier that day, gave the engagement ring to the kitchen manager, and we prepared for the exciting event. When the proposal came, his girlfriend said, 'no.' I honestly think it was the most awkward situation I have ever witnessed. The girl left, and the guy just sat at the table, expressionless. He wasn't terrible to deal with, but the situation was awful. The manager comped his bill, and we offered him an Uber home, on us. To persevere through this, or any other unsavory moments on the job, I remind myself that the situation isn't forever. I am kind, present solutions, and keep a smile on my face."