"Most of the time that an employee calls the Benefits department, they are either confused or upset. And when you are talking with a frustrated or angry person, it is important to make them feel heard and respected. When speaking with someone on the phone, I give them time to explain their reason for calling without interrupting or cutting them short. I also repeat what they have said to make sure I've understood correctly and use phrases that let them know I am on their side such as "yes, it is confusing" or "yes, I would be frustrated, too." It is important the employee feels they can trust me and that I am on their side, especially if I am not able to give them the answer they want to hear. By showing empathy for their situation and not judging them, the employee feels I am someone who will support and help them."