How do you handle difficult family members who disagree with the care that the patient agreed to?

"I would acknowledge that I understand they want the best for their family member, but explain that I cannot discuss the patient's care with them and that the patient has the right to make their own decision. I would encourage them to discuss their concerns with the patient directly and perhaps ask for a shared meeting with the doctor so their concerns could be addressed. I would definitely report the interaction to my nursing supervisor."

"When a patient is a competent adult who can make their own healthcare decision, I will respectfully direct the patient's family member back to the patient. I will remind the family member that I must respect the patient's privacy. If the patient agrees, I can call the doctor and ask the doctor to come to the patient's room and answer the family member's questions with the patient present."