"Recently, my family wanted to get together in a different state for a vacation/family reunion. It was a situation where multiple people said it would be nice, but no one was really taking action to make it happen. Finally, I decided to choose an actual location and had to coordinate everyone's schedule to find a time that worked. We all knew that it was important to reconnect, but it's hard to be the person that takes on the administrative details of organizing something like that. It showed me that if something is important, you need to put in the hard work to make it happen."