How to Answer: Describe an occasion where you mediated a dispute between two students.
Advice and answer examples written specifically for an Assistant Principal job interview.
17. Describe an occasion where you mediated a dispute between two students.
What You Need to Know
When answering this question, focus on your highly developed communication skills, especially concerning your diplomacy and nondefensive communication. Offer an occasion where you diplomatically exercised active, compassionate listening and gave every a chance to feel heard. Then, share how you got everyone to objectify the situation while removing any emotional component. Highlight the conflict's impact, especially on the students and school functions. Establish trust, offer transparency, and encourage the students to reach an agreement or solution. Mediate, offer feedback, set expectations, and follow up as needed.
Written by Kevin Downey on December 28th, 2022
Entry Level Example
"I think it is important to have a discussion and get them to contemplate the consequences of their actions. But to get their attention, you have to respond to their desire to feel validated and heard. So I'll do that first, then share with them the impact of their behavior on others and the consequences of their actions if they don't change course. This technique typically helps."
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Answer Example
"I recently came upon two students in a shouting match. I tried to de-escalate the situation, but one student was the aggressor, and, at a certain point, he swore at me, using a horrid phrase. I sent them to the office. I knew this student had some home issues, which was heartbreaking. But, despite my efforts, their behavior worsened over the year."
Written by Kevin Downey on December 28th, 2022
Experienced Example
"I recently heard a commotion in the hallway and stepped out to observe what was happening. Two female students were involved in a shouting and shoving match that seemed to be quickly escalating. While keeping a safe distance, I approached them and raised my voice to attract their attention. I demanded to know what was happening, and they resumed shouting over each other. I then told one of the girls to be quiet, allowing the other to speak. It turned out the larger and more formidable of the two girls was angry at the other for making a disparaging comment about her sexual orientation, having muttered a pejorative under her breath. This resulted in escalation, and neither backed down until I stepped in. I discussed morality and their behavior's effect on each other and reminded them they used to be friends. By the end, they hung their heads and apologized to each other, and not before long exhibited the signs of friendship once again."
Written by Kevin Downey on December 28th, 2022