"When I worked as a major gifts officer, I had the opportunity to meet with a potential donor who I learned during qualification was worth several million dollars. The potential donor reached out to me first and set up the meeting. He made no indication before the meeting what he would be willing to give, so I came up with a number based on his financial resources and past giving history. After meeting with him a few more times, I realized he had a personal connection to our mission to develop afterschool arts programs for at-risk youth. When I finally made my ask of 50,000, he was initially hesitant and countered with 40,000. I asked if he would be willing to donate 45,000 if we named the dance studio in our new building after him. He agreed."