"I recently read a paper by Dr. Lea Baider and Dr. Simon Wein on the realities of medical professionals facing death regularly. The paper suggested that those who are successful in dealing with death at appropriate times do so by compartmentalizing the events of their day. The paper went on to say that if a doctor is to split the mechanics of the problem from the emotional side, they can continue to function without the emotions getting in the way. This is an excellent recommendation, but it is also important to choose an appropriate time to address those emotions. For me, this would perhaps mean having a mentor or counselor whom I could visit regularly. Also, not internalizing a death or placing blame on myself for the loss."