"I would acknowledge that I understand they want the best for their family member. Then, I would explain that I cannot discuss the patient's care with them and that the patient has the right to make their own decision. I would encourage them to discuss their concerns with the patient directly and perhaps ask for a meeting with the care team so their concerns could be addressed. Throughout my career, I've most experienced upset family members in the PACU following surgery. In these situations, I take the time to talk with the family and educate them further on general medical process so they have a better understanding."