Picture yourself driving in the car with two toddlers in the back seat. One of them has been throwing toys at you and the other is screaming that he wants his pacifier. When you told one kid to stop throwing toys, he wouldn't stop and you can't safely find the pacifier without taking your eyes off the road. You may not be able to discipline the one child until you get home, but you can still say something to get their attention. Discipline can be so difficult, especially in situations where you have limited authority or when you're in the middle of doing something important that requires your full attention. Before you threaten to take away a privilege, you may want to try counting to three in a very stern voice, letting the child know what the consequences are if they don't do as you ask. Explain how you would handle the situation based on your experience.