How to Answer: I see you are engaged or married, do you plan on having children soon?
13. I see you are engaged or married, do you plan on having children soon?
How to Answer
The interviewer should never ask this question but you can choose to play along or you can opt out of the answer tactfully. Asking a question in return is a very smart way to show the interviewer that the question is entirely inappropriate without having to say so in a point-blank manner.
Here are 2 options:
"OH - this wedding ring is just a fake that I wear to avoid unwanted advances. Just kidding! When do you plan to start repopulating the earth?"
OR
"Oh wow, I have never been asked that question in an interview. How is this relevant to the position?"
Please note: If you are asked this question, you are within your rights to leave the interview and make an official complaint to the company's HR department or to your local labor standards board. Do not worry about blowing the interview. You do not want to work for such an irresponsible organization.
Written by Rachelle Enns
Answer Example
"OH - this wedding ring is just a fake that I wear to avoid unwanted advances. Just kidding! When do you plan to start repopulating the earth?"
Written by Rachelle Enns